Do you know that every time you speak, your words have an impact? This impact could be positive or negative depending on the words you are speaking.
Everyone talks silently to themselves and it is very important that you monitor self-talks very carefully. Don’t ever speak to yourself in a negative light. When questioning any decision, you have made in the past, or need to make in the future, don’t entertain thoughts of what could go wrong, and just concentrate all of your energies on achieving a positive outcome. To enhance this positive self-talk and keep the negative feelings at bay, you could practice daily affirmations, for example: I am strong. I am confident. I am a winner.
Another thing that you can do is to catch the negative thought or negative feeling the moment it arrives, stop it right there and change it right away by choosing the positive words. Imagine your thoughts and feelings in a form of a book. Whenever you come across a page that contains that negative thought or feeling, you can just rip it out, crumple it up and throw it away.
When you look at yourself in the mirror, never focus on your flaws. Instead give all of your attention to the qualities that you see in yourself.
Not only should you monitor what you speak to yourself, but also you need to check and alter the way you speak to others. For that, you can simply talk less and listen more. You could develop a habit of asking others as many questions as possible. If they are the ones doing the talking it will become a lot easier for you to stay silent and spill out less negative words.
This is my personal favorite way too. When I was a kid, my mother taught me if you don’t have anything nice to say, stay quiet. The technique works excellently for me till date.
And believe me you, I am known to be a very well-spoken and polite person amongst my family, friends, colleagues and clients.
I know that’s a bit of self-praise, but all is fair in the name of self-love.
Happy Manifesting.
Always remember:
YOU ARE A MANIFESTING MAGNET WHO IS HERE ON A JOYFUL JOURNEY.
BE PRESENT. PAY ATTENTION.
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